First of all, sexuality is a huge part of our human/spirtual BEING. Sexual energy is POWERFUL, and for me an orgasm is the closest thing I can describe to the feeling of union with our God Self.

 When all of our energy are equal vibration purified enough for divine energy to flow through each signal the higher you vibrate, the higher you will expand and a powerful euphoric blissful energy flows through our entire being. It is pure ecstasy. It is lovingly expansive, and will change you forever. 

Many of us have a lot of distorted sexual beliefs....we have been told that our sexual parts are bad. Many of us hate our sexual organs, and because of this we have shut them down. We don't enjoy sex OR we have become so distorted that we are destructive in our sexual energy using it to control and take dominion over others. 

I can not stress how important a balanced sexual life is for each and everyone of us. We need to learn how to use our sexual energy appropriately in a balanced ~ loving way, and that does not have anything to do with being straight or gay as none of us are really male or female anyway.... our truth is androgynous. 

Some of the straightest people you will ever meet are the most distorted in their sexual energy. It has nothing to do with gay or straight it has everything to do with our level of intention, energy, love and interest in sharing our sexual energy with someone we truly love and respect. Sex should be done with love and respect ~ there are no other rules.....everything else is just beliefs and details....we have free will, and can do anything we want as long as it is in mutual, respectful, consent ~ always done with love and appreciation for the other soul and their well being. 

All of our seven chakras need to be utilized and balanced....we can not shut down any one of them, because as soon as we do ~ we fragment ourselves and keep ourselves from being whole: